ok i figured it out heres the upload requirments that get everything to work from the start.
for packages you'll need
1.vrcfury
2.poy toon
3. vcc audio link
4.VRCFT Jerry's Templates
open the project then import
5.voideyeshader by neon you can get this by looking for the eye material in the project and joining their sever with the provided discord invite link the asset is free in their but ill give you the link to get it https://n02.gumroad.com/l/VoidEyeShader
thicc water v1.4 you can try to get the other versions working but 1.4 works off the bat. its also what the dick model calls for heres the link to the dick it specifialy uses if you dont believe me https://psicorpvr.itch.io/equine-penis
dont trust the jinxy requirments
please give rep if you appreciate this cause i spent hours researching and figuring this out thank you